Parent to Parent ~ Dangers of binge drinking

The dangers of binge drinking have been hitting the headlines recently, with fears expressed by health professionals that young drinkers are storing up future health problems.

And as the evenings lighten, the sight of groups of young people gathered on street corners or outside supermarkets drinking is a common one. In fact, go to any park, in any town in the morning and the chances are they will be littered with beer cans and plastic cider bottles - remnants of a session the night before by youngsters too young to be served in a pub.

As the Chronicle reported in February, hundreds of children in the region are in treatment to tackle alcohol problems. Shockingly, even some 11-year-olds are receiving help to beat their addictions.

For many parents, it's the thought of their children getting involved in dangerous situations while under the influence that's one of the most worrying aspects of it. With so many mixed messages around, it is important children and young people find out about the facts and the risks from their parents - their ultimate role models.

One concerned caller told our helpline: "I know she drinks too much. I really worry about her. Thank goodness she has good friends who always watch out for her. I insist that she never comes home on her own."

Although binge drinking is undoubtedly a problem, we do need to keep it in context and remember that not all teenagers will binge drink.

There is also some good work going on in schools to increase awareness of the dangers of alcohol abuse and to promote responsible behaviour.

Try to talk openly about what you see as the potential dangers - from health and safety - in a practical way so they don't tune out.

Even young children are aware of alcohol and its effects and parents can talk to younger children, answer their questions and introduce the topic without overwhelming them with information and scare tactics.

Remember, your own behaviour will influence them. Be honest about the reasons why you, or people in general, like drinking, as well as the negatives of alcohol.

If you fear your child is drinking a lot, don't panic. Accusing, arguing or threatening won't help. Wait until you are calm and they are sober before talking about your concerns and try to encourage them to tell you what's happening.

It's important you have support for yourself as well as your child - whether it is a friend or family member you can confide in or a support service like ourselves at Parentline Plus.

Call the Parentline Plus 24-hour free, confidential helpline on 0808 800 2222. Alternatively, e-mail parentsupport@parentlineplus.org.uk or for more information about the service, log on to the website www.parentlineplus.org.uk

The Evening Chronicle