AA suggests extra holiday gatherings

Holidays were never an easy time for Dennis. He's the central office manager for Alcoholics Anonymous, and a recovering alcoholic himself.

He said he receives many calls this time of year from people who ask for advice, comfort and the definition of an alcoholic.

"Some can't understand the disease complex of it," Dennis said.

Although alcoholism can be an issue through the year, Christmas is difficult because it's right before New Year's Eve - two major holidays that typically focus on parties and alcohol.

"They think New Year's is coming up so it's OK to drink," he said. "And after the holidays, they are filled with guilt and remorse. Some are strapped on money, and it makes them more guilty because they think of the money they spent on alcohol and gifts."

When Dennis talks with visitors, he discusses the "12 steps on keeping their holiday season sober and joyous" list.

The No. 1 suggestion recommends lining up extra AA activities for the holiday season. Dennis said there are several events in the metro and suburban area.

Near the Ralston area, the public is invited to District 23's annual New Year's Eve Celebration at Faith Presbyterian Church in La Vista on Dec. 31.

That event's itinerary starts with a happy hour at 7 p.m., a sobriety countdown and guest speaker at 8 p.m. followed by a raffle and dance.

The event chairman said this local event has been on-going for at least 15 years with an average of 250-300 people in attendance.

"It helps people realize being sober is fun and there are other things to do other than go to the bar and drink," he said.

Tickets are available to purchase before or at the door. For more information about this event or others, call the AA central office at 556-1880.

Other ideas to avoid alcoholic temptations from the central office include: · host AA friends and newcomers to a gathering; · keep an AA telephone list nearby; · skip any drinking occasion if it creates nervous tension; · bring candy along to parties; · plan to leave a party early; · worship in one's own way; · catch up on other hobbies such as reading, going to museums, walking and writing letters; · stop getting excited about all the holiday temptations; · think "one day at a time" and enjoying the true beauty of the season.

Dennis said the support of friends and family helps deter temptations. He said to plan events without alcohol, clean the party location of it and inform all guests of the situation.

Special AA meetings and events are key near these holidays.

"It gives a new person in AA a place to be," Dennis said. "A lot of people, due to their past relationships and friendships, are gone, and they are kind of on their own. If they sit around by themselves, they'll think about drinking."

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